The Flawed Diamond

My Blog postings have slowed down some over the last month. I was hoping to give the website a new facelift, for the time being, I am going to stick with this one for the minute. Anyway, you did not pay me a visit to listen to my sad tidings, onward and upward. My post.

I speak of an age-old problem in the field of Mental Health… Schizophrenia. Now this is a word that could bring to mind all sorts of questions and answers.

If you ask the man in the street the meaning of the word you may get an uneducated reply, something along these lines: crazy person, not normal, loony tune, Jekyll and Hyde type person, dangerous person, someone who needs to be locked away from us normal people, and so on, and so on. (sad)

single diamond
Now that’s a sparkler

Many in the medical world believe Schizophrenia can be pigeon-holed as a person with multiple personalities, another word I have often heard used in the world of medicine is Catatonia.

Catatonia is a syndrome of psychic and motoric disturbances, a condition marked by changes in muscle tone, or activity associated with a large number of serious mental and physical illnesses.

In the current Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders published by the American Psychiatric Association (DSM-IV) it is not recognized as a separate disorder.

It can also be present in individuals suffering from physical and emotional conditions such as drug intoxication, depression, and schizophrenia (catatonic type). It is most commonly associated with mood disorders. If you wish to know more then click the link to Wikipedia for a more in-depth look at the subject.

Well, that’s enough of that for the time being. I should mention here that Schizophrenia is not the illness of madmen/women, unfortunately, the way mental health is often portrayed in the media these days reinforces that age-old perception of the general public. There is documented proof that some individuals have a single attack of Schizophrenia they recover, and remain well never being bothered by the condition again.

I am no doctor or even a medical student, but as a counsellor, I do have my own personal view of Schizophrenia. Here it is.

Lets start with normal… tell me what is normal? My idea of normal is relative only to the individual… Using myself as a simple example such as I like Coffee, and it would not be unusual for me not to have at least 2 cups every day. I also enjoy a drink of dark rum, and my appetite for chocolate biscuits has to be kept on the reign, I have also realized just recently I enjoy swimming in the nude, I also do not believe I am prejudice etc, etc.

Now my partner as far as the above items mentioned are concerned likes none of the items bar one, (she is not prejudiced) her pet hate is coffee. While we have many things in common we also disagree on other things. After I have had a drink of coffee there is no bribe I could offer her to kiss me with the smell of coffee on my breath or to go swimming with me in the nude.

Does this mean my partner/wife is not normal or has a psychiatric problem, no it does not. It just means we have differing tastes, moods, and attitudes and these parts among others make the whole. So from my viewpoint, it would be right to say normal is relevant only to the individual.

As individuals, I believe we are made up of many parts each part is unique to each individual, some are moody, some are happy, some of us are biased, while some are murderers, some hate the old, even more of us are jealous of the young, you may often hear the comment youth is wasted on the young. This list could go on and on.

While we all share many of those mentioned the way we respond differs with each individual. So from my standpoint to say that each, and every one of us is made up of many parts is correct. These parts, and how we each respond to living gives us our uniqueness, bundle it all together to make the whole (you). Not a Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde, not a crazy person that has to be locked up, and kept away from normal people.

Yes, I do agree there could well be a small minority of people (individuals) that suffer Schizophrenia and more than likely will never be free from symptoms such as hearing voices or having unusual beliefs, and yes some may be incomprehensible, and unpredictable even appearing menacing, but we are in more danger from being stabbed, raped, or mugged just for the hell of it by what some people term as normal people than we would be from a sufferer of Schizophrenia.

So why title this post flawed diamond?

A diamond has many facets. When held up to the light each facet sparkles and shines. Each diamond is unique, each facet makes up the whole (diamond). Some diamonds have flaws but these flaws still have a part to play in the making of the whole.

I look at those that suffer Schizophrenia much like the diamond, there is no Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde, or anything else for that matter, just a flawed facet of the whole and much like the diamond it is possible to polish out the flaw repairing that particular facet restoring the diamond/individual whole again, or normal.

What was that I said Normal… Well, here we go again… full circle methinks.

Since this post, my website has undergone a facelift… twice… Thankfully with the help of Venificusunus, Lisa Marie Art, and a new improved WordPress.


Attended state schools (St Peters & Paul's) Spent my last 4 years attending St Cuthbert Secondary. Driver and warehouse manager 25 years plus. Spent 16+ years attending Newcastle Uni and North Tyneside College. (Humanistic approaches in Counselling). Qualified some years ago. Don’t have many dislikes apart from people who try to be something they’re not (conveniently forget where their roots are), and I do not suffer fools easily so they tell me, or people that over talk others. I eat and drink to live, love all kinds of music, places of interest, photography, Singing, computing, reading for pleasure (mostly supernatural/horror, James Herbert / Stephen King), and swimming.

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